How Did The Most Important Thing In the World Become Nobody’s Business?

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Today I was pondering a Facebook comment about faith. Or more accurately, openly discussing faith with others.  The comment was in response to a video of Obama discussing his faith.  Interestingly enough, all of my Obama-loving friends were posting this video as proof of Obama’s faith in Jesus, and all my Obama-hating friends were posting this videos as proof that he wasn’t a Christian.  Interesting how political perspective changes interpretations of remarks.  You all do know how to tell when a politician is lying, right?

But, anyways… A few comments on the video were of the “people shouldn’t ask other people about their faith/it’s not any of their business” type.  I have to excessively disagree with this mentality.

After all, what you believe in God (or don’t believe) is the most import belief you could possibly ever have. It kind of effects everything you do. How can you really know a person if you don’t know what they believe? Or why would you want to keep it to yourself if you think you have a good answer to the most important question in life? Wouldn’t that be kind of bad or selfish?  You will talk about movies or food or tell people where to get a good sale price… but not the answers to the most important question in life?  Doesn’t that seem odd?

It seems that only in America and a few random other countries do we find that attitude, really. I have been to many other countries in Asia, Europe, Africa, etc – and no one there really thinks that their religion is no one’s business. In fact, it is usually one of the first topics that will come up when you meet someone. It’s quite refreshing – they will freely talk about it, and even if you disagree with them they will just let it be and still be friendly to you.

Some people also get a little mad that Obama was asked this question.  Should it really matter what faith or president follows?  Personally, I don’t have a problem with a non-Christian president.  What is very important to me is honesty.  So if the president is going to answer the question, he should at least do it honestly.  If he is just telling the American public what he thinks they want to hear, then we have a HUGE problem.  If he is being honest, than great. The issue is not whether Obama is Christian or not, but whether he is telling the truth.

“The American people should demand that their President tell the truth.”

Clouds and Mountains, NorwayAfter all, what you believe in God (or don’t believe) is the most import thing there could be. Kind of affects everything you do. How can you really know a person if you don’t know what they believe? Or why would you want to keep it to yourself if you think you have a good answer to the most important question in life? Wouldn’t that be kind of bad?

The Hypocrisy Problem in Church Today

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Lifeway released some interesting survey results recently. They basically surveyed specific attitudes of people that don’t go to church. This was the stat that caught my attention:

  • 72% of the people surveyed said that they thought the church was full of hypocrites.

Well…. I never. While something like this can seem like an insult, I do have to admit that these people are correct. Churches are full of hypocrites. Before you think you can predict the rest of my thoughts here and think that I am going to decry the amount of hypocrisy in church today, I want to explore a slightly different path here.

What is hypocrisy, anyway? We throw it around a lot – but what does it mean to be a hypocrite? You can basically look at hypocrisy as a lie – you say one thing and do another. This ties in with something else I read today: a study that claims that the average person tells almost 88,000 lies in their life time (3-5 times per day). So, the sad fact is – we are all hypocrites. Churches are full of hypocrites because the world is full of hypocrites.

The real rub here is that one of the functions of a church is to reveal hypocrisy. And this is actually a good thing. Sure – you go to church to worship and pray. But you should also go to get your life examined from an outside perspective, so that your hypocrisy is exposed and you can actually change it. Not to have fingers pointed at you or to get judged, but to actually help you become a better person.

So what this all means is that people who don’t go to church don’t want to come, in part, because they see the hypocrisy in other people’s lives that has already been exposed.

Great. So…. what can you do about the fact that people don’t want to come to church because the church is doing one of the things that the church is supposed to do? Beats me. It’s this big lie that we all believe in America that hypocrisy is worse than any other mistake you can make, and that being a hypocrite means that what you believe in is wrong because of your hypocrisy and not because of any actual truth behind it. Or that you should avoid someone because they don’t actually do what they say they believe. If this were true, I guess we would all have to lock ourselves in our houses, get online jobs, and never interact with other human beings.

But such is the mindset that we have to work with in modern America. How to convince people that they actually need the very thing that is turning them off right now. Luckily, that’s not the real issue here. But it’s one that I’m sure will cause many discouraging conversations around the nation on a daily basis. Most churches will probably work to find a way to be less hypocritical. That’s always a good goal, but one we will have to work on for the rest of our lives. And probably not the quickest way to convince people to visit your church.

Come to think of it, realizing the truth about global hypocrisy, it kind of puts an interesting spin on all the churches that are trying to reach people by just “being real”? In “being real,” wouldn’t that mean they would be letting their hypocrisy hang out in the wind for everyone to see? Wouldn’t that mean that they are actually pushing more people away – since so many people don’t like the realness of hypocrisy? Just some things to ponder on, I guess.

Christian Artists: Giving Constructive Criticism

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Recently, I have been in many online and in-person discussions about Christians and art, or more specifically – why there is so much bad Christian art out there. I would argue that, ultimately, there is just bad art out there period, and getting saved doesn’t automatically sanctify lack of talent or taste. My reasoning for the fact that bad Christian art continues after salvation is that we have so many Christian liars out there. People that say they like something (painting, song, band, poetry, whatever) when they really don’t think it’s that great. Liar is a strong word, but I can’t think of anything else to call it – so please try not to be offended by my use of it. More on that in a minute. First of all, a few things to set-up.

There are basically two types of Christian artists. First of all, there are those that make art for themselves. They don’t intend to sell their art, get it displayed in galleries or played on the radio, etc. This is the kind of art that anyone participates in, and, in fact – I encourage everyone to do so. Being creative is something we can all do. If no on ever sees it – no need to be shy. The other type of artist is the one that tries to sell their art, even make a living off of it, or get it published, played, or displayed in public spaces. These are the ones I will refer to here from this point on as Christian Artists.

Once you cross that line from personal artist to Christian Artist, a whole new world has to open up for you. You no longer can just do what feels right to you. You have to be mindful of your audience. The opinion of others is crucial at this stage, because they are the ones that will ultimately support you. The opinions of other artists are helpful, but you still have to know the opinion of the audience. You have to connect with them.

This brings up the fact that there are three aspects of art that artists have to be concerned with. First, there is ability (skill, talent, etc). That is a given aspect, even if the artist doesn’t have it. After that is the communication of the idea. Just having a lot of skill doesn’t mean that you can communicate what is in your mind. And there are plenty of people out there that have found ways to communicate ideas in their head really well without any talent. The final aspect is the connection with audience. Having talent and the ability to communicate your ideas means nothing to the Christian Artist (or any professional artist) if you don’t have the ability to connect with your audience. And, yes, there are those artists that don’t have talent, do a bad job at communicating ideas, and yet still create stuff that connects with people.

This is also where many artists tend to take a “meh” attitude towards people that went to fancy, highly rated art/music schools around the world. These schools teach people the skills and the means to communicate ideas, but then students graduate from the school and go work for some catalog publisher. They have to do this because (possibly) they lack the ability to connect with an audience. Most artists would rather connect with an audience than perfect a skill.

Thus the rub of being a Christian artist. You need to know what others think of your work. Yes, you can pray and ask God and do what He wants regardless of what others think, but then there is that pesky deal of how God speaks to us through others.

This is why I encourage people to be honest when a Christian Artist asks for an opinion of their art, and you don’t like it. I have been in many situations where people lied and said that they liked something and they really didn’t (they admitted this to me later). They felt they were being “kind-hearted,” but I argue that a lie is a lie and can cause damage.

You see, Christian Artists do believe that God speaks through others, and you never know if that “kind-hearted” word is the last word they get before they decide to do something radical, like quite jobs, or sell it all, and “go for it.” I’ve know many people that actual do this (without praying – let’s face it, we all do this from time to time), and since all of the feedback they got was “kind hearted,” they missed God’s will and crashed big time.

So, what to do when a Christian Artist asks for your opinion of something that you just don’t like? Take a deep breath, and say four things:

  1. Let them know your credentials up front. If you have never studied art, music, poetry, etc, let them know it. They need that context to know how to file your opinion.
  2. Find something positive to say about the work/song/story/etc. For the Christian, this is usually the easiest part. Most Christian Artists mean well. It’s not like they are out trying to subvert the word to serve the Anti-Christ. So, you can say something like “I can see that you had a good idea to show a spiritual truth here” or something like that.
  3. Give them an idea about what you didn’t like about the art. You probably want to be as general as you can here, but not open yourself up to further questions (let’s face it, you wouldn’t be going this route if you didn’t want to lay out a list of all the problems with the art or didn’t care about hurting feelings). Let them know that you don’t go for the genre; or, if that is a lie – let them know that you just don’t connect with it.
  4. Encourage them to seek out more opinions. It may just be that you don’t get the genre that they are working in. You could be the one that is wrong. Or you could be that last straw that lets them know whether to ditch the day job and go full time or not. Let them know that you should not be the last opinion they get.

In fact, I would argue that these four steps could be for giving feedback on art that you do like – just replace step three with giving them specifics on what you did like.

So, the way to give constructive feedback on, say, a painting that you don’t like would be like this: “Well, please realize that I don’t have any training in art. I like that you are communicating how prayer affects the world through this painting. For some reason, I just don’t connect with the way that you are communicating, but I don’t know exactly why. I think you should definitely seek the opinion of others on this and not just go by my word alone.”

And, yes, I know artists are sensitive. They might still take this hard. Communicate with love and they will not feel rejected by you. Remember that above all – you still love the person, even if you don’t go for the art.

One of Life’s Mysteries Solved

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This hit me last night – an answer to one of life’s biggest questions. (If this has been covered somewhere else, and I am just stealing someone else’s idea here that I just can’t remember.. I apologize). The big question:

“Which came first – the chicken or the egg?”

The answer is quite simple, but depends on if you are a creationist or an evolutionist. If you believe in creationism, then God created all animals first, so the chicken was created by God first, and then laid the first egg.

If you are an evolutionist, then you believe the egg came first. Basically, as an evolutionist, you would believe that animals evolve and change over time – either as small changes in DNA slowly cause the creature to change, or major mutations cause quick changes every now and then (punctuated equilibrium). So, at some point you had a creature that was part chicken, but was still technically a majority of something else (lizard, some other bird, whatever). Then, this creature has a mutated egg that slightly or quickly pushes the amount of chicken in it’s genes into the majority column, and survival of the fittest dictates that the new chicken creature survives extinction, while the pre-chicken beast is killed off by mother nature. So, the egg came first.

Life’s biggest question, answered. Where’s my Nobel Prize?

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